- Studied Chinese at Nanjing University, not working hard in academics but striving in society. During this time, went to Nanjing Jinling Theological Seminary, heard the brothers and sisters calling, felt longing and heartache. Upon graduation, wrote about faith in Christianity in the yearbook. At the class graduation party, as everyone said something, I suddenly said, "God bless us!".
- Read many novels, wrote papers on contemporary drama, Wang Shuo's films, and Dream of the Red Chamber.
- Started dating many girls, from other departments and schools, senior and junior sisters, too many to handle, like Dong Jingping, Jiang Xuezhang, Guan Yu, Cao Lei, Wu Shujing, Xu Haiying, Zhu Ting, Zhou Jing, and so on. Especially fond of Han Qinfen from Nanjing University of Chinese Medicine, really liked her gentle and graceful demeanor, this was my second true love, unfortunately, it was still unrequited love. I confessed to her once, she said there was a reason, I didn't let her speak, I said my first impression was correct, then I asked her to tell me the reason, but she didn't.
- In the later years of university, mingled with a large group of rogues in society, in fact, they were quite nice people, even found a master to learn magic tricks, playing cards, and gambling. Learned some jargon from the underworld, experienced a period of a rogue life.
- Did a lot of business, but it wasn't my thing, because of a kind heart.
- Made friends from other departments and schools, like my brother Lu Jun.
- Helped out at a friend's popular food stall, cooked noodles, fried dishes for customers.
- Learned to play Go, bridge, and dance. Many girls from other departments and schools came to play at my dorm.
- Met many American and Canadian exchange students, mainly female students, including good friends like Gao Baoling (Louisa) and Fei Jialing.
- Once rode a bicycle from Nanjing back to my hometown in Jurong, don't know where the courage came from, to save energy, I held onto a tractor with one hand, suddenly went down a steep slope, the bike and I flipped to the other side of the road. Woke up, a truck stopped in front of me, I got up, rode the bike again, nothing happened, just the direction was reversed. Riding back, I realized this was definitely God's protection.
- Once in a film class, the teacher brought a camera, I was wearing a red shirt, many classmates took close-up shots of me, the teacher said this person in the red shirt must be an important character.